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“Stepping out your front door is the first intervention in birth.” ~ Unknown

I imagine that folks may have strong reactions to that statement. Perhaps it feels confronting, or perhaps it feels obvious.

How it feels to you will depend a lot on the stories you’ve heard about birth your whole life.

The stories your parents told, your grandparents told, the stories you saw on tv or in movies, the stories your friends have told, what you’ve read on the internet or heard in podcasts, and the stories your maternity care provider has taken in and in return shares with you. All of these stories combine to create the story you personally believe about birth – about what makes it safe, or not safe, about what makes a birth “good” or “bad”.

What's it really like to support your lover? Part 3

PART THREE: This one’s for you dads and partners!

When we talk about birth preparation, a lot of the focus goes to the birthing person: how will they cope? how will they get through? what do they need to know?

Which makes perfect sense. Labour is an intense and transformative experience that takes a person to their edges and then asks for a little bit more.

What's it really like to support your lover? Part 2

PART TWO: This one’s for you dads and partners!

When we talk about birth preparation, a lot of the focus goes to the birthing person: how will they cope? how will they get through? what do they need to know?

Which makes perfect sense. Labour is an intense and transformative experience that takes a person to their edges and then asks for a little bit more.

What's it really like to support your lover? Part 1

PART ONE: This one’s for you dads and partners!

When we talk about birth preparation, a lot of the focus goes to the birthing person: how will they cope? how will they get through? what do they need to know?

Which makes perfect sense. Labour is an intense and transformative experience that takes a person to their edges and then asks for a little bit more.

Still pregnant? There's still time to hire a doula.

So while 2020 has been The Worst, that doesn't mean your birth has to be too - you deserve calm, peaceful energy around you as you prepare to bring your baby into the world.

And as long as your baby is still inside your uterus, you can still hire a doula. (Once, I was hired by someone ALREADY IN LABOUR so if you aren't in labour yet, you're literally ahead of the curve!)

Of course, your doula will show up and take care of you and feed you ice chips and wipe your brow and help you through contractions. That's actually just a small part of what we do.